In Memoriam

Antoinette Tingley Schleyer, Former Staff

AT KIS: 1975-1976

Toni Tingley, as she was known at Kodai School, of Foxborough, MA, died on 12 October 2014 after a battle with cancer. She was 69. She leaves her devoted husband of 29 years, John “Jack” Schleyer, 3 stepchildren, 5 step grandchildren, a brother and many other relatives. Toni was born in Biloxi, MS, but raised in Massachuesetts. She graduated from Brown University and received a MEd from Lesley University. During the 1960’s and 1970’s she taught elementary education abroad in Switzerland, Germany, the United Kingdom and India. She was the Grade 2 teacher to the Class of 1986 during her year at Kodai School. Toni and Jack met at the International House in Providence, RI, in 1981; were married in 1985. They both were faithful attendees at the Boston Chapter summer picnics.

 

Donald Oberdorfer, Class of 1953

At KIS 1939-1953; Former Staff 2002-2005

Don Oberdorfer, age 79, died in September 2014 in Russia while on a trip with his wife Betchen who was also on Staff at KIS as Career Counselor from 2002-2005. Don attended Kodai School as a student from Kindergarten to his Graduation in 1953. He is survived by his wife, four children, seven grandchildren and countless nieces, nephews, grandnieces and grandnephews. He also left behind a huge collection of friends and acquaintances. Don is a man who touched everyone who met him. A memorial service was held in Roseville, MN, on 04 October 2014.

 

Sarah Dennison, Former Staff

At KIS: 1952-1957 & 1966-1984

Sarah E Dennison, age 95, of Lancaster, PA, died peacefully on Sunday, 07 September 2014 at the Willow Valley Communities. Sarah, born in Delaware, graduated from college with a teaching degree in 1940. She taught first grade for many years in Delaware before traveling to India in 1952 to teach at Kodai School. She was in Kodai for a 5-year term, teaching elementary classes before returning to the USA for a 9-year period. She then returned to Kodai School where she taught Grade 1, was dormparent for elementary students, and was the Elementary School Librarian at the time of her retirement in 1984. Sarah returned to KIS for the 90th Anniversary celebration of Kodai School. In retirement at Willow Valley she continued to enjoy working with children and teaching them to read as she volunteered at a nearby elementary school in Lancaster until she was 92 years old. Two sisters and three nephews preceded her in death; she is survived by a brother, three nieces, five nephews and many great nieces and nephews.

 

Diane Carlson, Former Staff & Parent

At KIS 1978-1981

Diane Carlson, age 72, of Waconia, MN, died at home on 04 September 2014. A life-long follower of Jesus Christ, she was baptized as an infant and later confirmed in the Lutheran Church. She was active in many church activities. She married her high school sweetheart, Daniel Carlson, in 1962. During her 3-year term on staff at KIS, Diane was dorm parent at Sherwood Dorm to over 30 boys. After returning to the US in 1981, she was a tutor for many ESL students and other students in the local schools. She was a loving grandmother who loved hosting birthday parties and other family events. Diane is survived by her husband, Dan, Former Staff, their 3 sons, Dave ’84, Brian ’87, Allen ’90 and many other relatives and dear friends.

 

Diane Carlson, Former Staff & Parent

At KIS 1978-1981

Diane Carlson, age 72, of Waconia, MN, died at home on 04 September 2014. A life-long follower of Jesus Christ, she was baptized as an infant and later confirmed in the Lutheran Church. She was active in many church activities. She married her high school sweetheart, Daniel Carlson, in 1962. During her 3-year term on staff at KIS, Diane was dormparent at Sherwood Dorm to over 30 boys. After returning to the US in 1981, she was a tutor for many ESL students and other students in the local schools. She was a loving grandmother who loved hosting birthday parties and other family events. Diane is survived by her husband, Dan, Former Staff; their 3 sons, Dave ’84, Brian ’87, Allen ’90; and many other relatives and dear friends.

 

Norbert Hattendorf, Class of 1949

At Loch End School: 1937-1945; At KIS: Volunteer 1982-1983

Norb Hattendorf, son of Lutheran missionaries, was born in Nagercoil, India in 1932. He studied in the Koehne Memorial School at Loch End. He continued his education in the US at Saint John’s Academy and College, Winfield, KS; Concordia Seminary, Saint Louis, MO; Luther Seminary, Saint Paul, MN. For a six-year period he taught at Concordia Academy, Saint Paul, MN, and was pastor at Pilgrim Lutheran Church in that city. He then was pastor at Grace Lutheran Church, Boulder, CO, for 34 years before retirement in Boulder. Norb enjoyed theology, reading, travel, motor homing in North America and Western Europe and sailing in his boats, “Maharani” and “Two If By Sea.” Norb died in Boulder, CO, in April 2014. He was survived by his wife, Ruth, also Former Staff at KIS; and three children including Andrew, Class of 1985; and seven grandchildren.

 

David Muyskens, Class of 1947

At KIS: 1935-1947

The Rev. Dr. David P. Muyskens, Class of 1947, died at home on 21 December 2013. He is survived by his wife, Ann, their 3 children, 3 grandchildren, 1 great-grandchild and his sister Bernice Muyskens, Class of 1940, Lettenmaier. David was born in India in 1930 to missionary parents. He came to the USA at age 17 to attend Hope College. He earned Master of Divinity and Doctor of Ministry degrees from Princeton Seminary. During 40 years of ministry he served three Presbyterian Churches in New Jersey and a United Church in Fayetteville, NY. Growing up in India during the struggle for independence under Gandhi’s leadership contributed to a lifelong passion for peace and justice. He became active in the civil rights movement, mobilizing the local community and participating in protest marches. He fought world hunger through local CROP walks which he organized and served on the National Board of CROP. David & Ann received numerous citations from the community and church for their efforts to combat hunger and poverty and to work for peace and justice. David was a natural athlete who love tennis, cycling and skiing, and represented New Jersey in the National Senior Olympics.

 

David Nykerk, Class of 1961

AT KIS: 1954-1961

News has come of the mid September 2013 death of David Nykerk, a retired English teacher. David joined Kodai School in Grade 6 in 1955 and was at the School until his graduation in 1961. He taught English from 1966 to 2000 at Hinkley, Central and Rangeview high schools in Colorado. He also served on the Aurora Education Association Board from 1970-1973 and was President in 1971-1972. David is survived by his wife, two children and grandchildren.

 

Robert Bruce Cummings, Class of 1953

At KIS: 1949-1953, Volunteer Fall 1996

Bruce Cummings of La Porte, Indiana, died in September 2013. He was born in Moulmein, Burman to American Baptist missionary parents. He was also grandson and great-grandson of Baptist missionaries to Burman. He was preceded in death by his parents, his sister Carol Grieves, and his brother Gordon, Class of 1957. He is survived by his wife, Louise, Former Staff; his brother, William, Class of 1954; two daughters, Lois Vertullo and Linda Young; two grandsons, a granddaughter and three great grandsons. After his graduation from Kodai School, Bruce received his B.S. and M.S. from Purdue University in entomology and insect ecology. He was employed for 40 years by the State of Indiana Department of Natural Resources inspecting greenhouses and nurseries. Bruce loved God and was a choir member, deacon, trustee and a Sunday school teacher at First Baptist Church in La Porte. He loved the outdoors, especially camping; was a Boy Scout leader for more than 40 years. During his volunteer semester at Kodai School, Bruce was involved in the hiking and camping programs as well as the activities of the School.

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Tina (Lalvani), Class of 1981, Lauto

At KIS: 1979-1981

To those of us who went to school with her, Tina, resident of Kennedy Dorm at Kodai, was gorgeous, smart, funny, and slender, a gracious classmate, and faithful friend. As an adult she added layers of that beautiful, kind, compassionate, witty, loving persona onto whom she was as a child. Tina was athletic and art loving, serious and silly, creative and curious, fashionable and free all at the same time. At the Lauto home with it's welcoming open door, she was the hostess par excellence, the stylish soccer mom and nice neighbor all in one. Those of us at her memorial quietly stood in shock and sadness with no comprehension of a person so swiftly snatched from us. Ellah Allfrey, editor, said it best that life often denies us understanding and sometimes all there is to hold on to is our ability to endure. Tina Lalvani Lauto, Class of 81, Mother of Michele 16 and Matteo, 13, wife of 19 years to Nando, Sister to Jetu, Andre and Sunita. friend to many, passed away in Los Angeles, California, on September 4, 2013. Submitted by Roxanna Khan, Class of 82

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Edward Krafft, Former Staff

At KIS: 1979-1981

Ed Krafft at the age of 92 died in Northern Colorado on 31 August 2013. Born in Chicago, IL, he was a graduate of Concordia Teacher's College, River Forest, IL, and obtained his master's degree from Washington University, Saint Louis, MO. In 1945 he married the late Winifred Schroeder, Class of 1940. Together they served Missouri Synod mission schools in South India for 16 years before returning to the US where he began a second career of teaching. Ed taught at the University of Northern Colorado's Lab School for 20 years before he retired in 1984. He leaves behind 8 children including son Thomas Krafft, Class of 1983; 14 grandchildren and 3 great-grandchildren. Ed & Winnie are remembered as the Dorm Parents of East House during their 2 years at Kodai School.

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Richard [Dick] Updegraff, Class of 1946

At KIS: 1930's-1946

Dick Updegraff died in August 2013 in Duluth, MN, following service from 1961 to 1984 with the Global Ministries of the United Church of Christ as a medical missionary in Turkey, Ghana and Liberia. Dick was born in 1928 to missionary parents in Miraj, Maharashtra. After graduating from Kodai School, he attended Oberlin College and the University of Pennsylvania Medical School. His wife and fellow physician, Virginia, preceded him in death in March 2013. He is survived by four daughters, Ruth, Karen, Gwen and Nancy as well as one son David.

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Gerhard [Jerry] Tauscher, Class of 1957

At KIS: 1947-1956

In August 2013 Jerry died of a massive stroke, suffered while he was at home in Deland, FL. Before his retirement had taught in both public and parochial high schools in Florida. Jerry left Kodai School at the end of his Junior year and graduated from high school in St. Louis while living in a YMCA and working in a hospital as a food server. He later graduated from Berea College, Berea, KY, in 1962. After teaching German and PE at Berea, he attended Springfield College, MA, where he received a master's degree in Recreation Administration. He planned and developed the 170 acres known as Jackson Park for the Henderson County Recreation Department,FL, where he was an athletic director. He is survived by his twin brother Wilfried '58 in Bremen, Germany, and brothers Herman '55 of Germany, and Rolf '54 of Red House, WV, as well as his sister Helga '51 Wente of Bethel Park, PA.

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Marjorie [Maj] Stormo-Gipson, Class of 1974

At KIS: 1965-1974

"To love another person is to see the face of God." Maj modeled this for all of us. She knew what it meant to love and be fully alive. Maj, named for her mother and grandmother, was born in Kodaikanal in 1956 and spent most of her youth in India. At Kodai School Maj was enthusiastically involved in a variety of activities. After graduation from KIS she went on to the University of California in Santa Cruz where she met the love of her life, Justin Stormo. They were married in Stavanger, Norway on 29 July 1976. Maj graduated with highest honors from UC Santa Cruz. Justin and she both attended Dartmouth Medical School. After completing their internship, they did volunteer medical work in Nicaragua for two year. Maj completed her residency in pediatrics at the University of California San Francisco in 1989, by which time they had three children. The family moved to Coeur d'Alene, ID, in 1991 where Maj was a beloved pediatrician. Maj and Justin shared a passion for providing volunteer medical care to the under-served community in Latin America. Maj loved water activities of all kinds, especially with her family. She tragically died in July 2013 in a river rafting accident while with her family on the Middle Fork of the Salmon River in Idaho. Maj is survived by her husband, Justin, their three children, Kenna '98, Kate , Luke '08, her mother, Marjorie Gipson, and her siblings, Tracy '59, Marcia '61, Reg '63, Carol '67 and John '73.

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James Carman, Class of 1978

At KIS: 1968-1978

Although born in Rochester, NY, Jim spent most of his youth in India where his parents, Robert & Lucile Carman served at the Christian Medical Center, Vellore. Jim attended KIS from Grade 3. After graduating from KIS, Jim went on to Macalester College, MN, where he graduated with a degree in Anthropology. He was happiest when he was helping others; he worked as an organizer for several nonprofit organizations, as a teacher and as a stay-at-home dad. He was truly engaged in the moment--everything he did was done with all his heart. Jim cared about peace, nature and everyone he knew; he was a warm, positive presence in so many people's lives. Jim unexpectedly died in July 2013 of undetermined causes. He is survived by his wife, Karen, and their three children, his parents, Bob '48 & Lu 'FS, his brother, Chuck '76, sister, Betsy '80 as well as numerous other relatives from the KIS Family; he was preceded in death by his brother Paul '83. A remembrance ceremony was held at the Lyndale Peace Gardens in the Twin Cities.

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Alice (Tegenfeldt), Class of 1962, Mundhenk

At KIS: 1955-1961

 

Alice Tegenfeldt was born in 1945 at Kodaikanal and survived her twin sister who died about a month later. Her parents worked in northern Burma (Myanmar) and Alice began attending Kodai School from Grade 6. After studying at Bethel College in St. Paul, MN, Alice worked as a linguist in Vietnam. She married Norman Mundhenk in Saigon. Norm and Alice worked for many years in Papua New Guinea, where Norm was a consultant for Bible translators. Alice studied early childhood education, taught preschool in Mount Hagen, and later went to Burma as a consultant. She worked there for about 15 years, founding the Yinthway Foundation, which focuses on early childhood issues. Alice died at home in Pearson Point, WA, in May 2013. She is survived by her husband, six children, and her Kodai School Alumni siblings, Ed, John, Paul, David and Judy.

 

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Walter Pringle, Former Staff

At KIS: 1967-1970

 

Walter was born in Port Huron, MI. His happy childhood was spent on his family's wooded acreage which he explored with his dog. He enjoyed athletics, participating in baseball, football, track and field as well as boxing. He studied two years of pre-engineering before serving in the US Army from 1954-1956. After his military service, he continued his studies at Anderson College, Adrian College and Wayne State University where he received his Master's degree in Educational Guidance and Counseling. It was at Anderson that he met and married Jacqueline Schieck, KIS Class of 1957. After teaching junior high math for six year in East Detroit, he and Jackie went to Kodai in 1967 for three years. They were on the staff of Kodai School where Walter was Guidance Counselor and taught Math. After teaching seven more years in MI, Walt and his family moved to Camrose, AB, and he became a Canadian citizen. Walt died in May 2013 and was interned in the Camrose Cemetery. He is survived by his wife, son Gregory, two grandsons and other family members in both Canada and Michigan.

 

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Keith DeJong, Class of 1946, Former Staff & Parent

At KIS:  1939-1946; 1957-1993

 

Keith DeJong, born in 1928 at Kuwait City, Kuwait, to Reformed Church of America missionary parents, was a student at Kodai School from age 10 until he graduated in 1946. He excelled in academics, track, trombone and singing. Among his many Field Day feats, his record for the Rope Vault still stands; that unique KIS sport was retired. His fantastic tenor voice will long be remembered by all who heard him sing. After Kodai School, he attended Hope College, MI, graduating in 1951. After college, he had a two-year stint in the US Marine Corps, during the Korean Conflict, as a chaplain's assistant.

In 1957 Keith and his wife, Marcine, joined staff at Kodai School where they raised their four children, Garry '74, Bruce '77, Dorothy '78 and Jim '80. Five of their eight grandchildren also attended KIS: Terah '01, Hans '04, Ketsa '06, Leif '09, Andry '11. His brothers David '51 and wife, Dorothea (Essebaggers) '51 and Garrett (Ed) '54 are all part of the extended Kodai School Family. Keith, suffering from Alzheimer's disease during his final years, died in peace and comfort in Waterville, MN, on 16 May 2013. Interment will be in Orange City, IA. Keith and Marcine were members of the KIS Shola Society and will long be remembered for their generosity to the KIS Music Department.

 

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Marjorie Hoffman, Former Staff & Parent

At KIS:  1950-1957

 

Marjorie Hoffman, widow of Nelson M. Hoffman, Jr., President Emeritus of Midway College, passed on to new life on April 13, 2013 in Lexington, Kentucky. Marjorie and Nelson were on staff at Kodai School where Nelson was Bursar, forerunner to Finance Director. Born in Kansas, Marjorie earned a Baccalaureate degree at Asbury College. A published poet, she edited several literary magazines and achieved recognition for her critical ability. Marjorie is survived by her five children of whom the two older sons, Nelson M, III '66 and Michael '68 are Alumni of Kodai School. A memorial service was held at Asbury Theological Seminary in Wilmore, KY, on April 27, 2013.

 

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Albert Shaw, Former Staff

At KIS:  1957-1974

 

Al Shaw was born in Union City, NJ, and raised by his maternal grandmother in Valley Cottage, NY.  He graduated from Rockland State Hospital Nursing School and then from Nyack Missionary Training Institute, where he met Bernice Garrison.  After he proposed 3 times (!) they married in 1942 and sailed with their daughter, Peggy '61, to India, where 2 more daughters, Lynette '66 and Vivian '68, were born.  They served in Maharashtra as missionaries with the Christian Missionary Alliance until moving to Kodai in 1957 to teach in Kodai School and serve as dormparents at Longcroft.  Al taught 7th Grade, high school Biology and First Aid, but his first and great love may have been hiking to Tope.  In 1974 he and Bernice went to Quito, Ecuador to teach in the Alliance Academy.  After their retirement in 1982, they moved to Portland, OR, to be close to their daughters and families.  Al's passion for healthy eating, exercise, good manners and correct grammar were matched by his lifelong belief in conservation ("Please turn off the light when you leave a room!") and his love of God's glorious creation.  He is survived by his daughters and their husbands, 13 grandchildren and numerous great-grandchildren.  Al died in April 2013.

 

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Diana Bohl, Former Staff

At KIS:  2000-2001

 

Diana Bohl, born in Tiffin, OH, died in February 2013 from complications of Alzheimer's disease.  Diana graduated from Heidelberg College and Northwestern University and taught in public schools in Ohio and Illinois before moving to Erie, PA, where she served on the faculty of Mercyhurst College.  She was on sabbatical from the College when she and her husband Adrian spent the academic year as volunteers at Kodai School.  At KIS Diana helped with the development of the Student Resource Center.  She retired in 2008.  Diana is survived by her mother, her husband Adrian, two daughters, a granddaughter and siblings.

 

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Ruth Esther "Chellie" (Manley) Rowland, Class of 1939

At KIS: 1928-1939

 

Much loved Chellie, 91, went home to be with her Lord Jesus right after Christmas 2012. She was born in India to Dr. Charles and Mrs. Ruth (Bass) Manley, American Baptist missionaries based in Hanamakonda, AP. Most of her childhood was spent in India, where her two older brothers, Tracy, Class of 1931, and Charles, Jr., Class of 1937, gave her the nickname Chellie (short for Chellamma), "little sister" in Telegu. At age 6, she joined her brothers at Highclerc School at Kodaikanal where she participated in many music programs and plays. Her family vacationed in Kodai and Chellie was especially fond of rowing on the lake and hiking the hills. After her graduation in 1939, she attended Linfield College in McMinnville, OR, where she met her husband John Rowland. The two were married after she graduated in 1943. While Chellie was busy raising their growing family, John taught in Alton, IL, and was on the faculty of Gonzaga in Spokane and Washington State in Pullman before working for Boeing. Chellie & John were both active in church and were both involved in the ministry of music. Chellie returned to college in the 1970's and became a music teacher in local schools. She was the choir director at her church. Her passion for family, music and faith showed in every aspect of her life. Chellie made it her mission to "make a joyful noise unto the Lord!"! Preceded in death in 1997 by her husband John, Chellie is survived by their children Gladys, John and Alice who continued support to KFI in their mother's memory.

 

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Gary Knapp, Former Staff

At KIS:  2000-2003

 

Gary Knapp passed away in December 2012 from an aorta dissection.  He taught physics, woodworking, design technology, computer graphics and was Web Master at KIS.  He later returned to Kodai to work on Ann Peck's 'FS efficient stove project, installing new stoves in villages houses around Kodaikanal.  At the time of his death, he was planning to present a paper on the smokeless stove project in Cambodia in March 2013.  Gary and his wife moved to Montana in 2005 where he took up his interest in woodworking, building beautiful craftsman style clocks.  He had just sold his 900th clock in November 2012.  He is survived by his wife, Lois (Lowey) Heibert '67.

 

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Jean Dettman, Former Staff & Parent

At KIS:  At KIS: 1964-1967

 

Jean Emery Dettman, born in Toledo, OH, died in November 2012 in Hingham, MA. Jean and her late husband Paul were on staff at Kodai School where she taught French and Paul was the Bursar (Finance Director). She was active in her church. She was devoted to her family and was a life-long learner. Jean is survived by six children who are Alumni of KIS, twelve grandchildren and five great grandchildren. A memorial service was held in December 2012 at House of Prayer Lutheran Church, Hingham, MA.

 

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Harold Wolverton, Class of 1937

Harold, known as Bubba, passed away in October 2012, two months shy of his 94th birthday. He was born in India where his parents were serving with the Canadian Baptist Ministries. He attended Kodai School and was in the Class of 1937. He was a radar technician in the Air Force in England during World War II, he received his post-secondary school education at the University of British Columbia and the University of Alberta. He practiced dental surgery for four decades and was a Renaissance man who could fix anything and discuss matters of any kind. He will be remembered as a kind-hearted and generous gentlemen. His generosity extended to KFI and KIS. He was a member of the KIS Shola Society.

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